Dating After Divorce: Dating Advice
Matchmaker Matchmaker Make Me a Match…
In today’s episode of Legally Uncensored with Dementia Graves, Esq. we are navigating post-divorce dating with none other than a matchmaking powerhouse Tennesha Wood (Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and Podcaster), she is the brains behind The Broom List, the first and only matchmaking firm dedicated to pairing educated, successful, marriage-minded Black singles.
Tennesha Wood shares the matching-making process, how to get back into the faring game, and how important it is to heal before dating.
Key Takeaways for the Newly Divorced and Dating:
Self-Reflection and Rediscovery: Understand who you are now post-divorce and what you want in a partner moving forward. This involves introspection about how the divorce experience has shaped you and what you seek in a new relationship.
Take Things Slowly: Avoid rushing into a new relationship. Spend time alone to rediscover yourself and ensure you are comfortable with who you are before jumping back into the dating scene. This process of self-discovery is crucial before seeking a new partner.
Communication and Setting Boundaries: Have open and honest conversations with potential partners about important topics like children, relationships with ex-partners, and future expectations. Establishing boundaries and discussing key aspects early on can prevent misunderstandings later.
Safety Measures: Prioritize safety when dating. Share your location with a friend or family member, avoid sharing personal information too soon, and take precautions before meeting someone new. Safety should always be a top priority in the dating process.
Detachment and Growth: Understand that rejection does not define your worth. If a relationship doesn't work out, seek feedback constructively, learn from the experience, and continue to grow personally. Each dating experience, whether successful or not, can contribute to personal growth and readiness for future relationships.
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